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The Founder of The Beckster Lifestyle. He has been at the forefront of the UK Seduction Industry for over 22 years now.


During that time, Beckster has trained thousands of students, and become a collaborator and friend with some of the most famous and illustrious of his worldwide contemporaries including Mystery (star of VH1’s ‘The Pick-Up Artist’), Ross Jeffries (inventor of Speed Seduction) and Neil Strauss (writer of ‘The Game’).


In fact, it is fair to say that Beckster has become somewhat of a seduction legend; a guy sought out by those ‘in the know’ who want to reach the next level, or by those already there who want to find out just how good they really are.

The Beckster Lifestyle is a collaboration of many dating coaches. We are a small group of specialists who display extraordinary gifts within the areas of confidence, social skills, attraction, style, dance, dating and seduction.

More specifically, we are a close-knit family of like-minded individuals with a passion for the fulfillment of potential; be it in ourselves or in those who entrust us to guide them.

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When we started, we saw an industry that was failing itself and the people it was claiming to help. An Industry that seemed to revel in its negative publicity, instead of striving to make its services valuable and accessible to everyone.

The Beckster Lifestyle then -in essence- was formed in response to this business-like conveyor belt attitude that seemed to be prevalent in the dating and seduction industry.

Our mission is to change attitudes and to make the pursuit of your most attractive self, something that is thought to be attractive in itself – as it should be. We believe that everyone has the right to be the very best that they can be, and that once we have taken on the responsibility of helping someone, we have a moral obligation to see that they succeed – at least to the best of our abilities.

We believe that every client has different needs, some of our students are older, others are younger, some want to be with particular type of woman, others aren’t sure. Likewise, there are some students who have already cultivated certain skills and want to work on filling in the gaps. Over the years we’ve equipped ourselves to handle every individual’s needs, and now we can finally say that everyone can find the right fit  from the services we offer.

In short, our mission is to help as many people ,as possible, get the life that they deserve, wether that be through improving their dating life or any other aspect of their lifestyle.

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